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佛教中有一戒就是戒色,那佛教如何看待婚姻問題,婚姻是否被佛教支持呢?
答(da)案(an)當(dang)然(ran)肯(ken)定(ding)的(de),俗(su)話(hua)說(shuo)寧(ning)拆(chai)十(shi)座(zuo)廟(miao),不(bu)毀(hui)一(yi)樁(zhuang)親(qin),可(ke)見(jian)婚(hun)姻(yin)的(de)重(zhong)要(yao)性(xing),但(dan)是(shi)有(you)人(ren)會(hui)說(shuo)這(zhe)是(shi)世(shi)人(ren)的(de)說(shuo)辭(ci),佛(fo)教(jiao)中(zhong)不(bu)見(jian)得(de)會(hui)認(ren)同(tong)這(zhe)句(ju)話(hua)。其(qi)實(shi)佛(fo)教(jiao)對(dui)待(dai)婚(hun)姻(yin)的(de)態(tai)度(du)是(shi)比(bi)較(jiao)正(zheng)麵(mian),畢(bi)竟(jing)古(gu)時(shi)候(hou)男(nan)女(nv)比(bi)較(jiao)羞(xiu)澀(se),隻(zhi)有(you)婚(hun)姻(yin)才(cai)能(neng)夠(gou)能(neng)好(hao)的(de)繁(fan)衍(yan)後(hou)代(dai),佛(fo)教(jiao)自(zi)然(ran)是(shi)支(zhi)持(chi)的(de)。
佛教對於夫妻雙方強調忠誠,男人善待女人,女人信任男人,這是夫妻間的一個基本的和平共處的條件。在佛經曾有一句話“貞廉自守,一夫一妻,慈心不怒。”從cong這zhe句ju話hua中zhong就jiu可ke知zhi,佛fo教jiao倡chang導dao夫fu妻qi之zhi間jian想xiang貞zhen潔jie廉lian守shou,同tong時shi還hai提ti倡chang一yi夫fu一yi妻qi,雖sui然ran這zhe一yi條tiao是shi古gu代dai男nan子zi很hen難nan做zuo到dao的de一yi點dian。但dan是shi從cong佛fo教jiao的de觀guan念nian來lai看kan,隻zhi有you一yi夫fu一yi妻qi,對dui於yu雙shuang方fang不bu管guan是shi精jing神shen上shang還hai身shen體ti才cai是shi最zui忠zhong誠cheng的de。
其中佛教還反對婚外情、同性戀。夫妻間,要和睦共處,若因夫妻不睦而影響雙方家庭,以致讓雙方父母傷心難過是很不孝,也是觸犯佛教的善心之舉。
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