我們一般人已經無法察知自己的前世，但對於今生所發生的事情還清楚。如果遭遇某些惡果，一定是前麵做了一些不好的事情。
最近，末學就因為埋怨母親而吃了次“啞巴虧”。事情是這樣的：moxuedehaiziyinweiqiguanyanxuguayanshuiduori。qianjicidoushiyoumoxueheqizilunliudaihaiziquyiyuanguayanshuiqiepinganwushi。daokuaiyaojieshushi，moxuedemuqintichuyaoyiqiqu。yushi，womensayiqiquleyiyuan。dengdaodashuyeshihou，ouyuduonianmeijiandeliangmingtongxuezhengqiaoyedailetamendehaizizaiguayanshui。dangmoxuekandao，tongxuedehaizicongpaiduidenghushichazhendaozuoshangyizishi，doutinghuabulitamendefumu。ermoxuedehaiziquebukentingwomendehua，bushiwannongyiliaoqiju，jiushidongzouzouxizouzoushi，moxuezaiyeannabuzhuxinzhongdenuhuo，kaishimaiyuanqimuqinlai。congyiyuanyizhimaiyuandaojiali。maiyuantazhexienianmeibahaizidaihao，bahaizidaideruciwanpibutinghua。
shihou，moxueyezhidaomaiyuanmuqinbudui，danquemeiyouzhenchengxiangmuqindaoqian。yushi，eguohenkuaijiufashengle。jitianhou，moxuezaichidongxishibuxiaoxinyaopoleshetou。qishi，dangshichidongxishiyeshichenhenxinzuoguai，yizhiyuchidongxishidouxiangzheqitashiqing。gangyaoponahui，suiyetongdanyemeitaiyi，yinweizhiqianmoxueyeyouduociyinchidongxitaikuaieryaoposhetoudejingli，wangwangguojitianjiuhao。keshi，zheciyaopodedifangjuranlanlehendayikuai。tengdemoxuelianshuohuadoukouchibuqing，yizhiyushuohuazhinengxiangyabayiban，nengfayindantuzibuqing。moxuejiafujinyezhuzheyigeyaba，pingshitingzhetakouchibuqingdishuohuashi，moxueyoushihaihuitoutoudijixiao。dancishicikemoxueshuohuaquehetachabuduo，zhenshieyouebao，zhishiqingzhongchengdubuyiyangeryi。
因此，末學奉勸各位師兄千萬不能埋怨父母，否則惡果就在後麵等著。不但不能埋怨父母，連其他人也不能。王鳳儀老善人的《化性談》中，第一條就是：buyuanren，yuanrenshikuhai，yueyuanrenxinliyuenanshou，yizhiyubushishengbingjiushizhaohuo。zhehuashuodeyidianyemeicuo。shengbingjiubuyongduoshuole，zhehuoshengshengdelizijiufashengzaimoxueshenshang。nazhaohuone?俗話說：禍從口出。過去的帝王，對於抱怨的臣子不但冷落以對，臣子甚至還可能招來殺身之禍。在我們生活中，隻要仔細觀察：人與人之間結怨，也是由不恰當的言語開始的，而這其中多半是怨天尤人之語。世上很多的打鬥、毀壞、嗔殺等行為，都是因為抱怨而起。
那麼，父母有過錯怎麼辦呢?《弟子規》上說的好：親有過，諫使更，怡吾色，柔吾聲;諫不入，悅複諫，號泣隨，撻無怨。解釋為白話文為：fumuqinyouguocuodeshihou，yinggaixiaoxinquandaogaiguoxiangshan，quandaoshitaiduyaochengken，shengyinbixurouhe，bingqieheyanyuese。ruguofumubutingguiquan，yaonaixindengdai。yiyoushidangshiji，lirufumuqingxuhaozhuanhuoshigaoxingdeshihou，zaijixuquandao;如ru果guo父fu母mu仍reng然ran不bu接jie受shou，甚shen至zhi生sheng氣qi，此ci時shi我wo們men雖sui然ran難nan過guo得de痛tong哭ku流liu涕ti，也ye要yao懇ken求qiu父fu母mu改gai過guo，縱zong然ran遭zao遇yu到dao責ze打da，也ye是shi無wu怨yuan無wu悔hui，以yi免mian陷xian父fu母mu於yu不bu義yi，使shi父fu母mu一yi錯cuo再zai錯cuo，鑄zhu成cheng大da錯cuo。